Timeouts do not always work when trying to discipline children. This time spent alone needs to be one where the child is aware of themselves and their behavior. One trick you could try is to call the timeout “Breathing Buddies.” This is basically meditating with a stuffed animal on their chest. After that, walk them through how they are feeling. Finally, give them a big hug. They just want to be loved and understand that they are good.

Key Takeaways:

• My 6-year-old son has always had very strong emotions. His tantrums can easily switch from an outburst to a state of emotional crisis.
• When I would put him on timeout after he was riled up, it only seemed to make things worse. He couldn’t calm down. He didn’t know how to.
• He is one of three kids, and being separated during these times of emotional meltdowns is a must.

“Instead of saying we’re going to take a timeout or time away, I will often ask my son to come play a game with me, just me and no one else.”

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