We all hate something about our bodies, and every person you think is better off than you has imperfections they wish they could change. Summer is swimsuit season, but don’t get discouraged if your body isn’t “bikini ready.” Get in the pool and enjoy yourself!

In this inspiring article from Scary Mommy, Rachel Garlinghouse shares how she is able to put aside the self-hate and spend time playing with her toddler in the pool, despite scars from her insulin pump and medical devices attached to her body at all times.

With all the stress moms already endure on a daily basis, the last thing you need is pity pool party. Wear a swimsuit you love even if you don’t look like the model in the ad and teach your children that you can still have fun even if you’re not perfect.

Read the full article here: Dear Fellow Moms: Stop Whining and Get in the Damn Pool