All parent have their moments that can completely break their hearts when their child says something hurtful. The top 5 phrases that are commonly used when children are upset are: 1) “I hate you,” 2) “You’re a bad mom/dad,” 3) “So and so’s mom is better than you,” 4) “I wish you weren’t my mom/dad,” and 5) “I wish you were dead.” It is important to not react negatively to your children when things like this happen, rather try and understand why they are saying it. When finished make sure that both parent and child are on the same page, the things they say can hurt us just as much as what we say.

Key Takeaways:

• Avoid an angry comeback – control your emotions and speak calmly.
• Confirm the child’s feelings by repeating the his or her statement.
• Show willingness to listen to you child when and he or she can speak respectfully.

“You may strive to be the coolest mom on the block, but you also aim to provide the best-quality parenting you can.”

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