When you’re pregnant with twins, everything in your life is going to change. But that’s okay. K.K. Goldberg knows this better than anyone. She gave birth to her twin boys almost four years ago, but she still remembers every harrowing minute. Here are her TEN TIPS FOR BEING PREGNANT WITH TWINS.

Just remember that it’s GOING TO BE OKAY. You’re allowed to be AMBIVALENT, and not be constantly excited. Don’t get HUNG UP ON THINGS OTHER PEOPLE SAY. That’s their experience, and this is yours. Don’t worry though. People will SUPPORT you, and it may come from surprising places. There’s a COMMUNITY of these parents. Everyone changes their parenting plans, and now you’re GETTING USED TO NEW THINGS. You will LOVE SLEEP even more than you usually do. Your BODY IS GOING TO CHANGE, and that’s okay. There is NO AUTOMATIC way to be a parent.

And ultimately? TWINS ARE SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL

Read the full article: 10 things I wish I’d known when I was pregnant with twins