Sometimes, I think back to friends who had children before me, and I realize looking back on all our interactions that oh, they must have been so much more exhausted than I was then.  Because now? Hello, now I’m a person who will literally fall asleep anywhere if given a chance. What IS it about parenting that is so exhausting?

At the beginning of 2018, I made the conscious note to myself that I would focus on building community this year.  For me, that specifically meant strengthening my ties with local foster parent friends like myself through regular get-togethers and, yes, the tried-and-true potluck method of sharing a meal.  While you are likely not a foster parent, this doesn’t mean

Okay, so maybe that title isn’t very generous.  It’s not that my daughter doesn’t want to do activities.  It’s that my daughter wants to do all activities with someone, never by herself, never solo, ever ever ever ever ever.  And I’m flattered! But I’ll be honest, sometimes, that’s really difficult as a parent. Let me liiiiiive! (This is hyperbole of

Everybody always talks about the joys of those midnight rocking chair cuddles, or the little giggles, or the toes being pulled to the little mouth.  Yeah yeah yeah, cute, sure. But I feel I’ve got some joys to share with you that maybe surpass all those cliche little moments. For example… Nobody told me it would bring me THIS MUCH

I’m a librarian by day and a mom, well, all the time.  Okay, technically I’m a librarian by night sometimes too, since we have night and day shifts.  So I’m a librarian and a mom. Our house is chock-full of books, and I mean literally, there are stacks of picture books waiting for another bookshelf to be bought to house

Okay look, I don’t even have an iPad, so my three-year-old definitely isn’t getting one.  However, I understand her plight when it comes to long car trips. Looking out the window might “build character” as I keep insisting, but sometimes you want something better to do.  Once you’ve listened to the Moana soundtrack (solid!) twice all the way through and

“Do moms know everything?” my daughter asked me one day while we were driving. “Oh, they know most things!” I chirped back brightly. For a second I felt like maybe just a minor-league liar, but then, the weight of everything I didn’t know settled on my shoulders as I gripped the steering wheel. There are so many things I didn’t

All the ginger mom real-talk confessions, all the time. *cracks knuckles* Here we go. I have a ginger kid and when I signed her up for Irish dance class, I did so ostensibly because I know she’ll enjoy it, but maaaaybe also because I know how she’ll be a Poster Child for the sport. I have a ginger kid and

It’s hard to find music for children that you won’t hate listening to, and sometimes your children hate your music. Here’s some stuff that may provide a nice cheerful medium. KIDS’ MUSIC THAT DOESN’T SUCK Ms. Cacie “Wheelchairs are for Wheelies” and “The Princess Who Saved Herself” are just two song titles by Ms. Cacie, whose album “Yes Means Yes!”

I have come to the conclusion that I really suck at playdates. Who knew it was something a person could be bad at? Playing, dating, what could possibly…oh, right, dating sucks, so in a way it makes sense that a playdate might be somewhat fraught. So here we are: you, me, and this sinking playdate ship. How am I so