Choosing a gift for the mothers and mothers in law in our lives can be difficult and stressful. Luckily, there are several products on the market that meet some basic rules of thumb. These rules say that gifts to these important women should feel personalized and not generic, and that it’s best to choose something that feels indulgent or expensive. Ideas include digital photo frames, espresso machines, crossword puzzle sets, Fitbits, and fashionable cardigans that are sure to please.

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